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Let’sstartwithquestion,Howmanyofyouknowthepeoplewho’rlivingonthesamefloorofyourapartment?.Ifyesthendoyourememberfirstconversationyouhavewiththatperson?Well,formetheconversationsarelinks.Whichmeanswhenyouhaveaconversationwiththenewpersonalinkgetsformed&everyconversationyouhaveafterthatmomentwiththatpersonthislinkgetsstronger,stronger&stronger…YouknowwhateverydaywemeetsomanystrangerslikeThegrosseryguy,theCabguyorthenewpeoplewithinyourteamorsecurityguyetcsometimeswestarttheconversationwiththem&thenewlinkget’sformed….Nowimagineyourlifetheseconversationlinkswiththepeoplearoundyou.Howmanyyoucanremember?,BelievemeItriedafter20Iforgotthecount.:D.Mypointisit’slikeWWW(worldwideweb)ofconversationlinks.Itwillgiveawholenewprospective.Aconversationopensadoor,Conversationcanmakewar&itcanmakepeaceaswell&conversationdefinedwhoweareasahumanrace.Thinkaboutit,Everysinglepersoninyourliferightnowwhenyouknownothingaboutthem,thesinglethingthatbreakstheiceisthefirstconversation.AndIamheretotellyouistotalkwithstranger,makethefirstmove&IamgoingtotellyouHow..Simple7waysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithStrangers.1. ThefirstwordfloodGates-MyadviceJustsayit.Supposeyouareintheroomwithsomeoneyoudon’tknow&youlookacrosstheroomandyouseeastrangerandsomethingwithinyousaysthatIwanttotalkwiththisperson&youknowsomethingthatmostlyhappenswithallofus,YouwantedtosaysomethingtheFirstword.Itjustwon’tcomeout.Itfeelslikeitstucksomewhereandrefusedtocomeout.Iknowthefeeling&hereismyadvice“JustSayit”.Justthinkwhattheworstcouldhappen.Theywon’ttalkwithyou.Welltheyarenottalkingwithyounow.Itrulybelievethatonceyousaidfirstwordeverythingelsejustgetsflows.Sokeepitsimple“Hi”,”Hey”orHello&dowhatthebestpersoninyoudoesgatheralloftheenthusiasm,theenergy,putonabigsmileandsay“Hi”.2.Skipthesmalltalk.Youknoweveryoneofusincludingmesometimesfacethisproblemeveryday.Youhavelimitedtimewiththatpersonyouwanttotalk&youwanttomakethistalkmemorable.Honestlyifwestuckintherutof“hi”,”Hello”,”Howareyou?”,what’sgoingon?,Nothingmuch,Sabbadiya!.Ifyoudothisyouwillfaittogiveinitialjolttotheconversationthatcanmakeconversationmemorable.SoIurgeyouto“Skipthesmalltalkandaskthereallypersonalquestionanddon’tbeafraid”.Trustmeyoullbesurprisedtoseehowmuchpeoplearewillingtoshareifyoujustask.Soaskanypersonalquestionregardinghis/herinterestingnameAnystorybehindthis?,howlonghe/shelivinginthiscity&doyourememberfirstdayyoulandedinthisbeautifulcityetcetc.Thereareenormouswaysofaskingpersonalquestionwhichpeoplewon’tbitetoanswertrustmeonthat!!.3.FindtheMeToo’s:Whenyoumeetthepersonforthefirsttimemakeaneffortstofindthethingswhichyouandthatpersonisincommonsothatyoucanbuildtheconversationfromthatpoint.Whenyoustartconversationfromthatpoint&thenmoveoutwardsfromthereyoullfindallofthesuddenthatconversationbecomelotmoreeasier.Thatisbecausebothofyouonthesamesideofgodknowssomethingwhichcommontobothyou.That’sthepowerfulthing!!.4.Payauniquecomplement.Ireadsomewherethatpeoplewillforgetwhatyoudo,theyforgetwhatyousaid,buttheyneverforgethowyoumadethemfeel&howyoutreatedthem.Sobegenerousgetyourdaamegooutsometimes&givesomeoneagenuinecomplement.Butbecautiousthatcomplementshouldbegenuine&uniquetothepersonanditmostlyneverbeunheardoff.Letmegiveyouanexample,coupleofyearsbackwhenIwasathardrockcaféinpunethereImetagorgeousgirl.Turn’soutsheisamodel.HearingthatIlookedatherandsaid“Wow!Youarebeautiful”&tomysurprizetherewasnoreactiononherface&IthinktomyselfHow??.That’swhenIrealizedsheisimmunetotheword“beautiful”.Becauseshemightheared1000oftimestillnow.Sotryandconstructacomplementthatisuniqueandgenuinecomplement&don’tlieplease.Peoplecansensethat.5.AskforanopinionWeallhaveanopinion&weallwantthemtobeheard&Everybodywantsavalidation.Sogoaheadandaskforanopinion.Thereyouhaveopenatwowaystreet,That’swhentherealcommunicationbegins&youllbesurprisedtoseehowmuchyoucanpickupfromthepersonjustbyaskingthereopinionongenericthings.Hereisamistakesthatsomepeoplemakes.TheyaskyouropiniononreallydifficultthingsEg:Someoneasksyouropinionaboutriseinaoilpricesandtheirimpactontheinflation.Itfeelslikeawkwardtoanswerthatifyoudon’tknowthesubjectmatteratall,isn’tit?Sojustasksomethingsimpleandkeepitgenericlike“Howdoyoulikeacoffee?”,“Whenthelasttimeyouwatchedamovie?”&whensomeonegivesyoutheiropinionbesureto“LISTEN”.6.BepresentImagineyouarepouringyourhearttosomeoneandhe/shejustbusyontheirphonechatting&ifyouaskfortheirattentionyougetaresponse“Icanmultitask”.Sowhensomeonetriestocommunicatewithyoujustbeinthatcommunicationwholeheartedly.Andmyfavouratepart“Makeaneyecontact”.Trustmeeyecontactiswhereallthemagichappens.Whenyoumakeaneyecontactyoucanfeeltheconversation.&Letmeboostupyourmotivationwhiletalkingwhenyoulookintheireyes9outof10timestheywillnotlookaway.7.Name,Places,AnimalThings.Youallcameontoaconversationwhereyoumettheperson,aftersometimeyoumetagainandyouforgotthenameoftheperson.Isn’tthatawkward,Iftheyplaythegamewithyoutellmemyname?.Sorememberthelittledetailsofthepeopleyoumetoryoutalkedwithmaybetheplacestheybeento,theplacestheywanttogo,thethingstheylike,thethingstheyhatewhateverthereis.Whenyouremembersuchthingsyoucanautomaticallybecomeinvestorintheirwellbeing.Sotheyfellresponsibletoyoutokeepthatconversationgoing.That’sit.7amazingwaysthatyoucanmakeconversationwithalmostanyone.Trustmeeverypersonisareallygoodbooktoreadtoortohaveaconversationwith.答案如下：小标题题型第一题：Justsay第二题：Skipthesmalltalk第三题：FindtheMeToo's第四题：Payauniquecomplement第五题：Askforopinion???[/cp] 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2017考研备考学习群：158299658考生编号初试成绩复试成绩复试总成绩初试权重复试权重总成绩排名报考专业名称笔试面试500/5100×60%100×40%100初试成绩*50%复试成绩*50%10730602180303654.4038.4032.2470.6427.235.3262.521地质工程10491621103462851.2038.4034.0472.4425.636.2261.822地质工程10710611310300353.2039.6028.2067.8026.633.960.53地质工程10423641310645555.2031.8032.9264.7227.632.3659.964地质工程10425654000307056.6030.0032.4862.4828.331.2459.545地质工程10615608200044052.0023.4027.1650.562625.2851.286矿产普查与勘探推荐阅读》》》34所自主划线院校2016考研复试分数线汇总2001——2016年近16年考研国家线汇总历年13大学科门类国家线走势分析图2016年34所自划线校复试分数线排行榜  更多

快讯，据南京林业大学研究生院消息，2018南京林业大学090704森林经理学方向全日制考研复试分数线详情如下：学校名称：南京林业大学学院名称：林学院年份：2018专业代码：090704专业名称：森林经理学总分：270.00小科（满分=100分）：34.0大科（满分>100分）：51.0说明：1、本数据不含专项计划复试分数线（少干及退役大学生士兵）2、各院系可根据本学科、专业特点及生源和计划数制定不低基本分数线的复试基本要求。考生须达到院系确定的学科、专业复试基本要求才能进入复试。 更多

快讯，据华东师范大学研究生院消息，2018华东师范大学078401教育技术学网络远程教育方向全日制考研复试分数线详情如下：学校名称：华东师范大学学院名称：教育学部教育信息技术学系年份：2018专业代码：078401专业名称：教育技术学总分：369.00小科（满分=100分）：38.0大科（满分>100分）：57.0说明：1、本数据不含专项计划复试分数线（少干及退役大学生士兵）2、各院系可根据本学科、专业特点及生源和计划数制定不低基本分数线的复试基本要求。考生须达到院系确定的学科、专业复试基本要求才能进入复试。 更多